There’s a quiet revolution happening in weddings, and it’s not about less celebration. It’s about more meaning.

Photo Deyla Huss Photography
Micro weddings (under 25 guests) and intimate weddings (under 75 guests) are back in a major way. And no, it’s not just the economy talking. This shift is generational. Couples today are moving away from performative, oversized weddings in favor of highly curated, style-forward experiences that reflect who they truly are. It’s not about the number of guests. It’s about the depth of connection.
Here’s why this shift is happening and why it might just be the perfect fit for you.
1. Intentional Guest Lists Create Elevated Experiences
When you’re not feeding 200 people, your budget stretches further. Think lush florals on every table, soft and stunning textiles, private chef-crafted tasting menus, and custom stationery that feels like art. It’s the kind of attention to detail that makes a wedding unforgettable.
Pro Tip: Focus your budget on fewer guests to elevate the experience. You’ll make a lasting impact with thoughtful design and intentional touches.
2. Passport Weddings Are the New Dream
Destination weddings are booming, and it’s no wonder. There’s something deeply romantic about gathering your favorite people in an inspiring setting far from home. Whether it’s an oceanfront dinner in Greece or a villa celebration in Italy, couples are craving experience-rich celebrations that double as memory-making adventures.
Pro Tip: If you’re planning a destination micro wedding, work with a planner who travels often or has connections with trusted teams in your chosen location. It makes all the difference in managing logistics smoothly.
3. Cutting the Guest List Isn’t Harsh. It’s Honest.
One of the biggest emotional challenges in planning a micro wedding is trimming the guest list. But remember, this is a celebration of your partnership. If the focus is on your union, every person present should be someone who supports and knows your relationship.
Pro Tip: Use the tiered guest method. Start with your inner circle. If there’s room, revisit the list later. You’re not excluding people from your life. You’re creating space for a personal experience.
4. Small Doesn’t Mean Simple
A wedding for 25 can have just as much design power, timeline strategy, and emotional richness as a 250-person event. When the guest list is small, you have room for more style, more intention, and more meaningful interaction.
Pro Tip: Choose a venue that fits your guest count just right. Too big and it may feel sparse. Too small and it feels cramped. The right space makes the experience feel intimate and beautiful.
5. You Actually Get to Be Present
This is where micro weddings shine. With fewer people, you can enjoy your own wedding. Eat the food, sip the cocktails, laugh during the toasts, and dance with every guest. You won’t need to rush around greeting everyone. You’ll be in the moment.
Pro Tip: Add personal touches like handwritten notes at each seat or welcome events before the big day to deepen the guest experience.
Whether you’re hosting a backyard dinner party for 20 or a coastal weekend celebration for 60, micro weddings are about more intention, more style, and more presence.
Yes, large weddings still have a place, and we love those too. But if you’re drawn to quality over quantity, to rich design and real connection, a micro wedding might be exactly what your heart has been craving.